So, how do you know when you're in love?

Dunk: You just know. You want to see that person all the time and you can't stop thinking about them whenever you're apart.

Simon: I've only been in love once. My dad always told me that when a girl gets into my head, then I should get rid of her - and I usually do.

Lee: I think that being in love should be big and dramatic - like being in a film.

Antony: I've never been in love, but I imagine it's quite a scary feeling.

What's the difference between love and lust?

Dunk: Lust is all about the chase. Once I've got a gilr I lose interest - I'd have to meet a very special girl to turn that lust into love.

Simon: Love and lust are part of the same thing. When you've been with someone for a while the lust wears off and it turns into love.

Lee: Sometimes you just notice a girl and know that she's special - that doesn't have anything to with wanting to get her into bed.

Antony: Lust is when you're first after a girl and you don't give up until you get her.

Do you like to make the first move or do you leave it to the girl?

Dunk: Last week I saw a girl I liked at a bar and didn't have the nerve to approach her. I wish she'd just come over and spoken to me...

Simon: I don't like making the first move because I can't cope with disappointment and rejection - it's like being stabbed.

Lee: I think girls like blokes who come out with all the smooth talk and I can't do that - I just mess up. I could never use a chat-up line.

Antony: I'm not scared of making the first move. I always try and make the girl laugh - that's the best way to break the ice.

Could you fall for a girl who slept with you on the first night?

Dunk: No. If she's done that with you then she'll do it with anyone, no matter what she says.

Simon: It wouldn't put me off. You can't predict how things are going to work out, you just have to go with it and see what happens.

Lee: I slept with my ex-girlfriend on the first night and it didn't put me off!

Antony: It depends on the girl and how much you like each other. If you respect each other, it shouldn't matter when you sleep together.

When's the right time to tell a girl you love her?

Dunk: You both know when the time is right. I'm not going to tell a girl I love her until I meet the one I want to be with forever.

Simon: It's not something you should take lightly and you shouldn't throw the word around. If she said it to me I'd say it back.

What else could you say?

Lee: Just before you sleep with her that first night!

Antony: You have to wait until the time is right. There has to be that vibe between you so you know she feels the same otherwise it might put you off.

Have you ever sent a love letter?

Dunk: Yeah. I find it difficult to express myself, so the best way for me is to write a letter.

Simon: No, it's evidence, isn't it? A girl sent me one once and I showed it to my mates!

Lee: Yeah, and I've written poetry. No one has ever sent me a love letter though. I wish they would!

Antony: No. I've seen girls showing them to their mates and laughing about them - I wouldn't want anyone to do that to me!

What about buying her romantic presents?

Dunk: I like pampering a girl and buying her presents. It makes her feel special.

Simon: I'd rather buy a pair of trainers! But I once took a girl for a meal, to the cinema and then for drinks - that was three dates in one night!

Lee: I like buying perfume for girls. If I've got a girl on my arm, I want her smelling nice.

Antony: I once spent £70 on a date with a girl and she just said, "Thank you" and went home. I didn't even have cash for a cab home!

Is it a big deal to take a girl home to meet your mum?

Dunk: Yeah. I thought I was in love with a girl and took her to met my mum. I could tell my mum didn't like her very much and it put me off.

Simon: You'd never take a girl home straight away. You want your mum to like your girlfriend, so if my mum says get rid I get rid.

Lee: If you're truly in love with someone, it wouldn't matter if your mum liked her.  

Antony: I'd been seeing a girl for a few months when I took her home to meet my mum and dad. They didn't like her, so I was really cold to her after that.